Monday, November 8, 2010

A Grave Disappointment!


Have you ever heard a piece of music that you wish with all your heart you knew a dance to? Perhaps it was just my tired mind last night, but as I was putting Gracie back to sleep after she woke with a nightmare, I started her c.d., and immediately, wished I knew how to dance a minuet! You see, the music is a children's classical c.d., and they happened to be playing a minuet, and I couldn't keep still while it was playing! Don't ask me why! :) I have always thought a minuet sounded so elegant, and I loved the music that went with it! I have always imagined it to be a beautiful, graceful, Colonial dance. Besides, I'm always looking for new dances to teach the girls! :) So this morning, I went on an internet quest to find an instructional video for a minuet. And you know what?!? Every video I found, the people danced like frogs with wings! It was awful! :) Oh well! I guess that little wish has been speedily laid to rest! If that is what a minuet looks like, I'll stick with my Virginia Reels! :) But then I found another dance I really want to learn! I had heard of this dance, but hadn't really seen it, but here it is below! This looks SO fun! :) I'm teaching it to the girls!!!!!! ~Rachel

Friday, November 5, 2010

Love of Literature Review Series: Gone With The Wind

Okay everyone! I know I have missed several weeks of my "Love of Literature Review Series" but now we are back on track! This week's review is on "Gone With The Wind By Margaret Mitchell:


Oh boy. Where should I start? Okay. Let me briefly describe this book to you: The much loved chronicle of a selfish Southern belle's life during the Civil War. Those are the mildest terms I can use to describe this book. I cannot go further. You see, I did something entirely unusual and stopped reading it in the middle! Many years ago, as a girl of 11 or so, I tried to read the book, and since I couldn't understand very well, I never finished it then. So recently, I decided that I'd take another whack at it. After all, so many people I knew loved the book! My grandmother had stayed up 24 hours reading it as a young girl! I hoped to find some redeeming quality in the book by the end of the first few chapters...Chapter 4...nope....5? nope....6? nope....and by the time Rhett Butler's (The "hero" mind you) handkerchief was seen in the possession of a "bad woman", I simply couldn't stomach it anymore, and put the book up. This is a different review, because generally I love books, but this one I was terribly disappointed in. So let me highlight some of the main problems in this novel:

The problems:
1. Scarlett O'Hara herself: She is an A number 1 first class flirt! Selfish, willful, bitter, disrespectful....the only attractive thing about her person is her outward appearance, and this she knows all too well...add vanity to the list, will you?

2. Rhett Butler: Let me put it to you in one-word descriptions...they are quite correct: rogue, cad, wicked, vain, flirt, reprobate, wayward, crafty, ungentlemanly, wily, EW! He made me so mad throughout the book, because of the way he treated all the women- disrespectfully and as if they were his playthings if he wished. A most vile man.

3. Scarlett's relationship with Ashley Wilkes. Basically, she loves Ashley, but out of tradition, he marries his cousin Melanie. Scarlett, in revenge, marries someone she doesn't love at all, even views with contempt, becomes a widow in 2 months, and ever after as far as I got, burns with a passion for Ashley who is off to war, even though she lives with his wife...I mean seriously? That was another main issue I couldn't stomach in the book.

4. Scarlett's waywardness: She is so willful and disrespectful, and is constantly bringing disgrace upon her father's household, and herself, though Rhett convinces her little by little, the old ways are worth nothing.

The Virtues:

Melanie Wilkes: This is a girl it is easy to love because she is so opposite Scarlett's personality, and Scarlett hates her. Melanie is the only woman Rhett Butler half-way respects, and she is the proper wife for Ashley. I only wish I knew what happens to them! :/

The truth: Like it or not, there is some truth in this book: Scarlett and Rhett have a conversation at one point that goes something like this: "You sir, are no gentleman!" "You are right. And you miss, are no lady." Agreed. Then, there are several instances where the author acknowledges the "slow fade" principle. After laying waste to several traditions and customs (very good ideas some of them) Scarlett finds it easier and easier to continue on in that path.


Those were the only two redeeming qualities I found in the book so far! I would NOT recommend this book to any self-respecting person, or at least, as far as I got in the book....what do you all think, if you have read it? Do the characters reform at all? I just couldn't stand it any longer so I stopped reading! :) -Rachel

Plot: *** (as far as I got, the plot was interesting if nothing else.)
Characters: **** (Well, if you are judging strength of characters, they are all memorable.)
Morals: * (Sorry anyone who loves the book! :) Maybe if I had finished it they redeem themselves! ;)





Wednesday, November 3, 2010

What Are Mothers Made Of? :)


As I tried to let Mama rest on her birthday, and make her a special birthday dinner with the girls, I was reflecting on just what does make a mother what she is. Of course, I do think and feel like a mother in many of these areas, but I am not a mother yet! :) I think we should all stop now and then and think over how much mothers do for us! :) Here are my thoughts on the subject:

I can take care of a household, do all the chores, fix meals, and keep laundry running and folded, but until I can do all of that while holding a baby in one arm and a 3 year old by the other hand, I will not know how it feels to be a mother.

I may be able to handle all the problems that come up in my life, but until I can look a weeping six-year old in the face, and listen to their little tragedies without laughing, and help them through their trials without making them feel like ridiculous "children", I do not have the ever-ready understanding of a mother.

I may be able to wrap presents beautifully and concisely, but until I can step over the untidy makings of an eight-year-old boy's gift-box to lay paper down before he spatters the table with paint and all the time praise his ingenuity, I haven' the patience of a mother.

I may be able to make a pie-crust flaky to perfection, but until I can make one with a sister standing in between my arms, helping me roll the dough flat, I don't have the foresight of a mother.

I may be able to sew a doll dress, ice a cake, do any of a number of things eight times faster than a little child, but until I can let them help, and not mind the crooked stitches, or lumpy icing, I won't be thinking like a mother.

I may be preparing a gorgeous meal, and setting the table beautifully, but until I can let a little brother light the candles, even if he uses up ten matches, and until I can all the while thread a needle for a little sister eight-hundred times, and still emerge from the kitchen with a smile on my face, I don't have the multi-tasking abilities of a mother.

I may be able to appreciate great works of art and beautiful music, but until I can hear the "Moonlight Sonata" played fifty times over, and until I can look at a 6 year old's drawing and see as much promise, and as much beauty as if it were hanging in a museum or recorded on a c.d., I don't have the eyes and ears of a mother...

Thanks Mama! :) Love, Rachel

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Yet Another Double-Birthday! :)

Happy Birthday Mama and Gracie!!!!!!!!!!! :D
(By the way, this is a picture from a couple years ago, but I couldn't take the time to find another, but it's still cute! :)

We love you both soooo much! Mama, thanks for being the best Mama a family could ever have! You are always ready to have fun, and think up fun things for us to do!
Gracie, you keep us laughing at your ridiculous Eighth child antics! :) You are a sweet little girl with a personality big enough for any grown-up! We love you!!!! <3
-Rachel and Sarah

p.s I get to vote for the very first time today! :) *Yay!* :) ~Rach